A: This can be quite difficult to explain but let me try. Bear in mind that the real reason is that they just want space away from you and the relationship no matter what your ex's breakup reasons are.
By reaching out to them and explaining or telling them how significant they are to you, you're depriving them that space that they want.
This only makes them feel like you're not listening to their request and they feel like they require to pull even further back.
This can lead to a no-win situation and you might attempt even harder to get through to them.
And so, the dance goes on until your ex pushes you wholly out of their life.
By reaching out to them and explaining or telling them how significant they are to you, you're depriving them that space that they want.
This only makes them feel like you're not listening to their request and they feel like they require to pull even further back.
This can lead to a no-win situation and you might attempt even harder to get through to them.
And so, the dance goes on until your ex pushes you wholly out of their life.